But it looks like Michael Vartan may have been just a platonic buddy until their split became official.In fact, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner were talking reconciliation until she found out he cheated with naughty nanny Christine Ouzounian right under Jennifer’s nose.
Most importantly, and this does not fit into backpack, someone to talk to. Ultimately, your reinvention starts from the inside, and sometimes that requires solitude. After a little while in solitary, you are still feeling wounded and depressed – and mad! So, explore options that you can afford but most importantly try to do what you love. Travel is one of the most liberating and energizing ways to reinvent yourself, alone or with other women. The world is expanding, and with it your choices- maps, guidebooks, new clothes, tickets to shows, gardens, museums – a new lipstick. There are some great online dating sites around these days.Congratulations, you have moved from denial to anger. You start to obsess about things you didn’t say or do in your relationship, trying to understand what went wrong. You want to share your personal tragedy with friends, family, hairdresser, and complete strangers. For many, travel is a great way to reaffirm one’s individuality and experience the incredible world we ignored in the first three stages of EX. This is also a time for redefining your sexuality which was probably a strong component of your past relationship. For example, allows you to suggest fun and creative date idea and find someone who enjoys doing the same thing.I buried this idea along with the letter knowing I would re-enter the dating scene in my own time. I was by myself at the grocery store and I looked up to find a man watching me with an interested look in his eye. I called him and asked him what he thought about me dating. I’m so happy you are considering it.” Her response wasn’t what I expected, but from both her and my father-in-law’s answers I felt better about moving forward.To my surprise, I found myself feeling attracted to him. This innocent exchange of glances made me uncomfortable, but only in a sense that I realized I was no longer a married woman but an available single one. First, I needed to be willing to discuss dating with people who I was close to. He said genuinely that he wanted me to be happy and that he knew Mark would want me to be happy too. I wasn’t sure what she would say and was shocked when she didn’t say anything. Second, I needed to know that I wouldn’t be dating to just fill a void. However I had met Mark online and thought it was a good place to start. It felt a little uncomfortable to be searching for a ‘new’ man after being with one man for ten years.Expect more denials from the Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck camp on this latest twist in their divorce dilemma, but it looks like Jennifer Garner is rebounding with her Alias costar Michael Vartan (and maybe another hunk too! The National Enquirer reports that “Michael’s been a total rock for Jen throughout this whole nightmare.
They both know exactly how the other feels.” Michael Vartan broke up with his wife this time last year so he’s on the market and we know he and Jennifer Garner have great chemistry.When they recorded “Somebody to Love” Jefferson Airplane made famous the sentiment that we all want someone to love: Don’t you want somebody to love Don’t you need somebody to love Wouldn’t you love somebody to love You better find somebody to love.For many, loving someone is as important, if not more so, than having someone love them.I was thirty-nine years old when my husband died unexpectedly in his sleep. He was my love, my rock, a crucial part of my life and our children’s future, and in an instant, he was gone.A few weeks after his death, I received a letter from my insurance company.Scott Foley spoke up to say that Jennifer Garner’s fame was the issue in their divorce and told People Magazine “Nobody else was involved.” But Jen may have started with Vartan as her marriage to Scott Foley was ending and has done the same as her marriage to Ben is breaking up.