I’m guessing there are other readers out there that feel this way, especially when both people are working in the same field, firm, company, etc.
How do we deal with this competitive nature so that it doesn’t destruct an otherwise perfectly good relationship?
There's a really high chance that the “too busy” guy (or girl) isn't any busier than the rest of us.We all get 24 hours a day, so mathematically speaking, we're all working with the same allotment of time per day.And we're all used to using that 24 hours in a day in specific ways, which we would probably consider as “busy.”For example, I wake up, shower, go to work, go to the gym for an hour, make dinner, then either attend social commitments, reconnect with my couch or run errands. And just like that, I've spent my 24 hours staying rather busy without batting an eyelash.However, should the opportunity arise for me to spend time with someone who doesn't quite fit into my routine, I have one of two options: I can either shuffle my schedule around to accommodate him, or I cannot. When someone tells you he or she is too busy, what that person is really saying is what he or she is used to doing with his or her time takes precedence over the opportunity to see you. Because I can't point the finger at everyone else and walk away clean; I, too, have used the excuse that I am “too busy.”But, that's just what it is: an excuse.Meeting Women When You’re Busy A lot of busy men need dating tips on where to meet women.
There are actually tons of ways that you can fit meeting women into your busy schedule. The crux of dating tips for the busy man is knowing where and how to date. Here are some dates that don’t take a lot of time, but are fun and allow for you to get to know a woman better: Economizing Your Time When you’re a busy man dating, you’ve got a limited time budget to work with.
The best way to effectively use your time to make room for the social life you are lacking is to keep a diary down to the minute.
This will help you to cut out areas where you might not be economizing your time best.
You need dating advice that acknowledges your specific situation.
For all the men who’ve given up on dating because they’re too busy, read on: You’re about to become the social animal you’ve always wanted to be.
You need to be comfortable being with yourself, developing your own passion, honing your skills and navigating your way toward your goals, just as he does.