A shock of recognition went down my spine as I watched Pittsburgh gym shooter George Sodini giving a video tour of his house.
] of Steele teaching his students how to talk to women, and if you look carefully, right at the beginning and later on, you can clearly see Sodini in attendance. Don Steele’s e-mail to New Times was a plaintive cry for help. He wrote that he had exposed a fraud that deserved exposing, but doing so had put him in serious legal and financial peril.
The charlatan he’d outed was named Ross Jeffries, a former paralegal who claimed to teach men how, using hypnosis disguised as innocent banter, to talk women into bed.
About halfway into the video, Sodini pans down with his camera to catch a brief glimpse of the material on his coffee table, and that’s when the hairs on the back of my neck stood up: one of the books he shows is none other than How to Date Young Women: For Men Over 35 by R. (One of Jeffries’ students was Neil Strauss, who went on to feature Jeffries techniques in The Game.) The two dating gurus had engaged in a vicious on-line war for several years, and now Jeffries was suing Steele for breaking into his private website forums.
Steele, meanwhile, was challenging Jeffries to prove in court that his hypnosis technique wasn’t pure garbage. But it was also clear that both men were actually peddling the same thing: helping unconfident men grow a little backbone.
The brutally honest chapter is titled Courtship Tactics For Women.
Men, learn how you can tell from across the room if she's interested in you just by her posture and gestures.I describe the unsettled life and troubled times of the typical 20 year old who can become interested in dating a man.When you understand her you only need to know, on average, younger ones are worse in every way, better in none.The essence of courtship and dating conversations is to communicate, with and without words, "This is who I am. Show and tell me about yourself so I can discover if I like you."Women, learn how you can easily get noticed, then interest and attract the right type of man, a man you can trust.The way he stands or sits, touches or does not touch himself lets you know if he is telling the truth. Don Steele's, "Body Language Secrets: A Guide During Courtship and Dating" is a good introductory book for becoming better aware of the nonverbal language that goes on between men and women during potentially romantic settings. To do otherwise, leads to extreme miscommunication and failed attempts at connecting.